Service is one of the best things you can do to nurture any relationship. And sometimes, when it comes to marriage, we might start taking each other for granted unknowingly. It really doesn’t take much to show your spouse how much you really love and appreciate them. By small and simple things are great things brought to pass.1 Here are 50 small and simple things you can do to serve your wife.
Read: 50 Ways to Serve Your Husband
- Cuddle with her a few extra minutes every day.
- Surprise her with her favorite treat.
- Wash and detail her car.
- Don’t complain about anything for 24 hours.
- Listen to her with no distractions.
- Compliment her sincerely.
- Leave her a sweet note on her pillow.
- Send her a thoughtful text.
- Let her sleep in.
- Genuinely ask her how you can make her day a little easier.
- Be the first to forgive.
- Insist that she take a night off to do whatever she wants to do.
- Hold her hand in public.
- Do the dishes.
- Plan a date and call her on the phone to ask her out.
- Hug her tight.
- Kiss her for one minute.
- Work on changing something you do that might bug her.
- Suggest that she pick the movie.
- Turn on “your song” and lead her in a dance.
- Ask what you can do for her.
- Let her know every time she has a great idea or good advice.
- Give her a back rub.
- Wear her favorite cologne around the house.
- Choose to be happy and positive.
- Take the baby in the middle of the night so she can catch a break.
- Listen to her and don’t interrupt.
- Tell her she’s beautiful.
- Ask her to teach you how to do something she’s good at.
- Clean out the garage.
- Bring or send her fresh flowers.
- Find a babysitter for an overnight getaway.
- Fill up her car with gas.
- Replace the toilet paper.
- Cook a romantic dinner.
- Workout with her.
- Turn off your favorite game and take her on a walk.
- Light some candles and draw a bubble bath for her.
- Encourage her when she’s feeling nervous.
- Hold the door open for her every time.
- Ask how you can help her accomplish her dreams.
- Turn on her favorite station in the car.
- Encourage her to go out with her friends.
- Surprise her with those shoes she has been eyeing.
- Say, “I love you,” more often.
- Wink at her from across the room.
- Write her a love note.
- Take her car in for an oil change.
- Weed the garden.
- Put the kids to bed.
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2 Responses
Thanks for this Becky. Reading about Ammon last week had me thinking about how Ammon showed his love with service, dedicated, thoughtful, deliberate service. I can do better. This will help. Thank you.
Good list! Thank you.