How often do we focus on what we can be doing to be a better spouse? It doesn’t come natural to me, I have to consciously work at it. Last week I shared a list on 50 ways to serve your wife. Don’t worry guys, here is your list! These ideas are small and simple, but when done with a sincere heart, will be sure to go a long way. Here are 50 ways you can serve your husband.
- Cook his favorite meal.
- Take his car in to get detailed.
- Don’t nag him.
- Initiate sex.
- When he’s sick, wait on him hand and foot.
- Plan a surprise trip.
- Compliment him in front of his friends.
- Leave him a sweet note on his pillow.
- Let him sleep in.
- Be quick to forgive.
- Send him a thoughtful text.
- Point out what he’s good at and why you love that about him.
- Ask how you can simplify his day.
- Insist he go play 9 holes (or his favorite activity) while you catch up on the to-do list.
- Schedule that appointment for him.
- Plan a fun date night.
- Work on changing something you do that may bug him.
- Mow the lawn for him.
- Tell him how much you love being wrapped in his arms.
- Don’t complain when he has to take care of other responsibilities.
- Ask for his advice and thank him for it.
- Ask him what you can do to make his day easier.
- Surprise him with that item that’s been sitting in his Amazon cart.
- Help him check something off of his bucket list.
- Ask how you can help when he’s feeling stressed.
- Give him a back rub.
- Pack him a lunch before he leaves for work.
- Greet him with a smile and a kiss when he walks through the door.
- Choose to be happy and positive.
- Wear his favorite perfume around the house.
- Listen to him without interrupting.
- Cook him breakfast in the morning.
- Ask him to teach you how to do something he’s good at.
- Clean and organize his desk or office.
- Thank him for something specific.
- Be happy for him when he gets to do fun things for work.
- Surprise him at work with his favorite treat.
- Send him a flirty text.
- Cheer him on at his basketball game.
- Write him a note on the mirror with dry erase markers.
- Join him at the gym and ask him to give you a good workout.
- Encourage him when he’s feeling doubtful.
- Pay him a sincere compliment.
- Tell him how hunky he is.
- Turn on his favorite station in the car.
- Cut his hair, complete with a head massage.
- Make sex a higher priority.
- Listen to his advice.
- Say, “I love you,” more often.
- Thank him for all that he does.
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One Response
So greatful, but want to know biblical verse that shows how to serve my husband better. Thanks and was helpful.