You feel it, don’t you? That little nudge. You’ll be scrolling, and you’ll think:
- I should share something like this…
- I should say something about my testimony…
- I should post more uplifting things…
And then just as quickly…you don’t. Because:
- You don’t know what to say
- You don’t want people to think you’re trying to be an influencer
- You don’t want to sound preachy
- You don’t want to offend anyone
- You feel awkward, self-conscious, maybe even a little embarrassed
So you keep scrolling. And the nudge keeps coming back. Well, here’s your sign! Did you know that the Church said this: “If you use social media, share messages and content that bring light and joy into your life—things that truly inspire you and make you happy.” That’s where I come in.
So Why Haven’t You Started?
Not because you’re lazy. Not because you don’t care. It’s because you’re a good person. And good people think things like:
- “What if I say it wrong?”
- “What if someone disagrees with me?”
- “What if people think I’m fake?”
- “What if I can’t defend what I say?”
You’re not the only one. Almost every woman I talk to feels this exact same tension:
I want to share… but I don’t know how to do it without feeling weird.
So instead of doing it imperfectly…we don’t do it at all.
The 4 Lies Keeping You Stuck
Let’s call them out, because once you see them clearly, they lose their power.
Lie #1: “I have to post all the time”
You don’t need to post every day. You don’t need a content calendar color-coded to perfection. You just need consistency.
That could look like:
- 1–3 times a week
- One simple thought
- One real moment
Lie #2: “People will think I’m trying to be an influencer”
Some people mightMost won’t. But more importantly—it doesn’t actually matter. Because your intent shows.
There’s a difference between:
- Performing
- and sharing
And people can feel it.
Lie #3: “I don’t want to offend anyone”
This one is really common! But here’s the truth: You can be both kind and clear.
You don’t have to:
- Argue
- Defend everything
- Prove anything
You can simply share what you believe and what has helped you. That’s not offensive. That’s honest.
Lie #4: “I don’t know how to do it right”
There is no “right.” There is no perfect formula. There is no moment where you suddenly feel 100% confident and polished.
There is only:
Starting
Learning
Adjusting
That’s it!
So… Where Do You Start?
Start small. Start simple. Start today.
Not when:
- You feel more confident
- You have more time
- You figure everything out
Because that day doesn’t come. Confidence comes after you start! Not before.
If You’re Sitting There Thinking… “I want to do this… I just don’t know what to post.”
I made a free guide for you! Because I don’t want “I don’t know what to say” to be the reason you stay silent!
How to Start Sharing Goodness Online (When You Have No Idea What to Post)
Start making a positive influence today by sharing goodness in your unique way. The world needs you!
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