Church Callings: Saying Yes, Saying No, and Finding Joy

In The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, receiving a calling to serve is often seen as a sacred responsibility. Whether it’s teaching a Primary class, organizing a youth activity, or serving in a leadership position, callings offer opportunities to grow spiritually and serve others. But what happens when you feel overwhelmed, unprepared, or simply unable to take on a new calling?

Is it Okay to Say No to Church Callings?

Church callings are not just tasks—they are divine invitations. When we are called to serve, we are not merely fulfilling a duty. We are being asked to help build the kingdom of God and serve His children. President Dallin H. Oaks explained that “a calling is an opportunity to be an instrument in the hands of God to bless the lives of others.” This perspective can help shift our view of callings from burdens to blessings.

I believe there are two very important aspects to consider when accepting – or not accepting – any church calling: being willing and being able. Endowed members of the Church make a covenant in the temple to live the law of consecration, including being willing to give everything to the building of the kingdom of God. This most definitely includes accepting church callings. However, members aren’t always able to fulfill that calling for various reasons. If that’s the case, communicate with your leaders and let them know your situation. Good inspiration comes from good information.

The Power of Saying Yes

While it’s okay to say no when needed, remember that there is great power in saying yes when you feel called to serve. Saying yes is an expression of faith, a willingness to trust God, and a desire to do His work. The Lord promises to magnify our efforts when we take on His work (Mosiah 24:14).

When you say yes, you open doors to blessings you can’t yet see. You allow yourself to experience the joy of serving others and growing closer to Heavenly Father. And, when you step out in faith, you’ll often find that you are strengthened beyond your own ability, through the help of the Holy Ghost.

How to Enjoy Your Church Calling

Serving in church callings can be so rewarding! If you’re striving to experience more joy in your calling, it’s important to focus on the positive aspects and the spiritual growth that comes through service. Here are a few tips for enjoying your calling:

• Remember the eternal perspective: No matter how mundane the task may seem, every calling can contribute to your eternal growth. Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf reminded us that “the service we give to others is what will ultimately define us.” Serving in a church calling is one of the most meaningful ways to help others while growing closer to God.

• Focus on relationships: Church callings often provide opportunities to build lasting friendships and connections. Focus on how your service can build unity within the ward and strengthen bonds with others. These relationships can provide a sense of joy and fulfillment in your calling.

• Trust in God’s timing: Sometimes, callings can seem overwhelming, especially if you’re already juggling many responsibilities. Trust that God knows your capacity and will never ask you to do something that you cannot handle with His help. As President Thomas S. Monson stated, “When we are in the service of our fellow beings, we are in the service of God.”

• Find purpose in everything: Even if you don’t feel qualified or ready, recognize that you have unique gifts to offer. If you focus on how you can contribute, rather than how you may fall short, you will find purpose and fulfillment in your calling.

Church callings are a sacred opportunity to serve and grow spiritually, but they should never become a source of undue stress or burnout. In all things, seek Heavenly Father’s guidance, trust His timing, and know that you are loved and supported as you strive to serve Him and His children. And above all, remember that the heart of a calling is service, and God will always provide the strength, wisdom, and peace you need as you seek to fulfill your divine purpose.